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A Stoic Sobriety Empowering Recovery with Stoic Wisdom

A Stoic Sobriety Empowering Recovery with Stoic Wisdom

 Introduction

Do you want to crack the code to a lasting recovery? This article is an essential guide to understanding the subtle yet powerful cues that can challenge sobriety. In the complex landscape of addiction recovery, triggers are the hidden landmines that can derail progress and send us back to old habits. It is critical that we can identify and defeat our triggers.

To that end, here we will explore the nature of these triggers—emotional, environmental, and social—and provides practical strategies for neutralizing their influence. Whether you are a recovery veteran or new to the process, learning to identify and manage these triggers is crucial for maintaining long-term sobriety.  

Here is an official definition of the term trigger. Merriam-Webster defines “trigger” as both a noun and a verb. As a noun, it primarily refers to a mechanism, like a part of a gun, that initiates an action when activated.

As a verb, it means to cause an action or process to start​ (Merriam-Webster Definition)​. Additionally, the term “trigger” has evolved in usage to include meanings related to causing a rapid or sudden action or response in various situations, such as medical symptoms or social interactions​ (Merriam-Webster Definition)​​  As you can image, a trigger can be equally dangerous for a person with a substance disorder. 

Recognizing Triggers

Now that you have an official definition of a trigger, it is time to crack the code. The following are examples of the forms a trigger may take:

Emotional Triggers: These include feelings such as anxiety, sadness, loneliness, frustration, or anger. Emotional triggers can also include positive states like feeling extremely happy or excited, which may lead someone to want to celebrate with substances.

The most simple example here is dealing with a stressful relationship whether it be family, a significant other, coworkers or your boss. You may have a big argument and you feel unheard and wronged and you just want to escape the emotions that are bubbling up. A little voice may jump in and say “a drink would really help right now” and hopefully a recovery voice knows better.

I will cover the term H.A.L.T. in the next section as a very useful tool for managing triggers. In H.A.L.T., The middle two elements, (A)ngry and (L)onely, are examples of emotional triggers as well.

Physical Triggers: These can involve physical sensations such as fatigue, hunger, or physical pain. Such discomforts might push someone toward seeking relief through substances.

You often hear the term H.A.L.T. in 12 Step Groups. The bookends (H)ungry and (T)ired refer to physical triggers. I will go into more depth on H.A.L.T. here as it is a really useful tool to have in your toolbox.

The acronym H.A.L.T. stands for Hungry, Angry, Lonely, and Tired. It’s used in 12-step programs like Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) to remind individuals in recovery to check in with themselves and address these basic needs as a way to prevent relapse. Each component of H.A.L.T. represents a common trigger that can potentially lead to a craving or relapse if not managed properly:

Hungry: Physical hunger can affect mental state and decision-making, leading to irritability or poor choices. Ensuring regular and nutritious meals can help stabilize mood and reduce cravings.

Angry: Unaddressed anger or unresolved conflicts can increase stress and might push someone towards old habits as a coping mechanism. Learning how to manage anger and resolve conflicts healthily is crucial.

Lonely: Isolation can be a significant risk factor for relapse. Engaging with supportive friends, family, or fellow recovery group members can provide emotional support and decrease the urge to use substances.

Tired: Fatigue can lower one’s ability to cope with stress and can impair judgment. Ensuring adequate rest is important to maintain both physical and mental health.

In 12-step programs, members are encouraged to use H.A.L.T. as a simple and practical tool to self-assess their state and make conscious efforts to take care of their well-being as part of ongoing recovery efforts. Addressing these fundamental needs can help individuals maintain sobriety by reducing the impact of these common triggers.

Environmental  and Social Triggers:  Specific locations, situations, drinking friends or even times of the day can serve as cues. For example, passing by a bar one used to frequent, attending a social event where substances are present, or times of day associated with previous usage (like evenings or weekends).

This is where the advice in AA to change people, places and things come into play. The idea behind changing people, places, and things is to create a safe and supportive environment that minimizes triggers and maximizes the chances for successful recovery. It’s about building a new life where old habits are replaced with healthier ones, facilitating long-term sobriety.

People and Places are pretty straight forward but the things can be important as well. This aspect covers removing or avoiding specific items that might serve as reminders of substance use. This could include paraphernalia, certain types of music, movies, or any personal items linked to past behaviors.

Psychological Triggers: These involve thoughts or patterns of thinking that can induce cravings. This might include feelings of worthlessness, self-doubt, or memories associated with substance use. Ignorance or avoidance of ones underlying psychological issues are often the root of the substance abuse disease.

Working the 12 Steps in AA are a guide to getting to these root causes and addressing them. Many need additional support to work through their challenges. There is no shame in using any and all tool available to one today to get to a better place mentally.

Recognizing triggers marks the initial stride toward empowerment in recovery. So long as one works at  pinpointing specific situations, we can design strategies to diminish their impact. This often entails formulating a plan, which may involve steering clear of triggering environments, establishing a robust support network, and cultivating healthy coping mechanisms.

Overcoming Triggers

Now that you know what triggers are and what forms they may take it is time to finally crack the code. There are many tools we can use to defeat triggers when they present themselves.

One effective ally in the battle against triggers is cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT), which aids individuals in identifying and challenging distorted thought patterns while fostering healthier coping strategies. Through CBT, individuals learn to reframe negative thoughts and beliefs associated with triggers, empowering them to confront cravings in a constructive manner.

Mindfulness techniques, such as meditation and deep breathing exercises, serve as invaluable assets in trigger management. By focusing on present-moment awareness, individuals can observe their thoughts and cravings without judgment, enabling them to respond with clarity and intention.

Moreover, developing a supportive network of peers, friends, and family members can offer invaluable assistance in navigating triggers. Connecting with those who understand the challenges of recovery provides encouragement, accountability, and practical advice. For example, peer support groups like Alcoholics Anonymous or Narcotics Anonymous furnish a safe haven for individuals to share experiences, gain insights, and draw strength from one another.

Lastly, self-care emerges as another critical facet of trigger management in recovery. Engaging in activities that nurture physical, emotional, and spiritual well-being aids in building resilience and reducing chances to fall prey to cravings. With attention to regular exercise, balanced nutrition, sufficient sleep, and hobbies or interests that bring joy and fulfillment can enhance one’s recovery greatly.

It’s crucial to acknowledge that managing triggers is a continuous process. Recovery follows a nonlinear trajectory, and setbacks are inherent. When faced with a trigger, practicing self-compassion and resilience is imperative, as is reaching out for support when needed.

Conclusion

In summation, triggers pose a formidable challenge for individuals navigating recovery from addiction. Yet, with awareness, preparation, and support, they can be effectively managed. By identifying triggers, devising coping strategies, and nurturing a strong support network, individuals can navigate the complexities of recovery with resilience and determination. Ultimately, to crack the code, one needs to confront triggers head-on and master proactive responses, individuals can achieve enduring sobriety and reclaim control of their lives.

Resources

How to Manage Triggers and Cravings in Addiction Recovery -PaRC 

Triggers in Addiction Recovery – Gateway Foundation 

How to Overcome Triggers in Recovery – The Recovery Village 

 

Written By Tony Harte

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