Step 2: You’ll Never Walk Alone

Step 2 in 12-Step Programs, coming to believe in the concept of a power greater than ourselves is central to the recovery process. This power greater than ourselves is referred to as a Higher Power. Truly embracing Step 2 is a foundational building block for a lasting and fulfilling sobriety.

It doesn’t necessarily refer to a specific religious deity, but rather it acknowledges the need for individuals to recognize a power greater than themselves. This higher power is a personal and subjective concept, allowing each person to define it in a way that aligns with their beliefs and values.

Step 2 and YOUR Higher Power

The Stoics embrace pantheism, acknowledging the concept of a personal god within their beliefs. A pantheist perceives God and the universe as inseparable entities. In the same fashion, Bill W often references the cosmos and the universe in his A.A. writings.

Chrysippus tells us “The universe itself is God and the universal outpouring of its soul.” Furthermore, Marcus Aurelius states “Whether the universe is a concourse of atoms, or nature is a system, let this first be established: that I am a part of the whole that is governed by nature; next, that I stand in some intimate connection with other kindred parts.”

The Word God is not a Deterrent

I never struggled with accepting this belief in a Higher Power. I personally have used the collective strength of the group and a general belief that there is some force out there in the universe that is greater than I. Additionally, I have used philosophy as a guiding light in my journey.

Many automatically dismiss A.A. as a religious program and use that as a barrier to trying our way of life. We really need to dig under the covers and determine if a single word “God” should keep us from practicing a program utilized by millions to find a better life. Regardless of your personal views, Step 2 is simply asking one to have an open mind and recognize you have the freedom to define a Higher Power that works for you.

At this point, after much study of the flexibility of this step, one is still hung up on A.A. being a religious program, there may be deeper issues to consider. It is often said that this is not a program for those who need it, it is a program for those who want it. In reality, there is room in the program for everyone, including Atheists and Agnostics. Chapter 4 in the A.A. Big Book is dedicated to “We Agnostics” and I suggest a deep study of the chapter for anyone struggling with Step 2.

 Higher Power Examples

As has been noted, a higher power may be rooted in a traditional religious understanding, the strength of a group, nature or the universe. I have heard in A.A. for years that a doorknob can be your higher power! While this is tongue-in-cheek, it emphasizes the fact that God, can be of your own creation.

The essential piece is surrendering the illusion of control and acknowledging that there are forces beyond one’s individual capabilities. As people with addictions, we have not done such a bang-up job of managing our lives. This makes it critical to accept that we need help outside of ourselves to live life on life’s terms.

Step 2 and The Magic of a Higher Power

The higher power serves as a source of guidance, support, and inspiration throughout the recovery journey. It provides comfort in times of struggle, fosters humility, and encourages individuals to tap into a source of strength beyond their own. This concept helps create a sense of connection and purpose, fostering spiritual and emotional growth.

In essence, the higher power in a 12-step program is a deeply personal and flexible concept. Tailoring to the individual’s understanding and beliefs, it plays a crucial role in the process of recovery and maintaining sobriety.

Step 2 and Stoic Parallels

The second step of a 12-step program and Stoicism share some intriguing parallels. Both emphasize the recognition of forces beyond one’s control and the need for humility and acceptance.

In Stoicism, practitioners strive to cultivate an understanding of what is within their control and what is not. Similarly, the second step encourages individuals to acknowledge their limitations and recognize a higher power or force that can guide and support them in the face of life’s challenges.

Stoicism also promotes the idea of aligning oneself with nature and the natural order of the universe. This resonates with the concept of a higher power in the sense that individuals in a 12-step program may find strength and guidance by aligning themselves with a power beyond their own understanding.

Both philosophies share a focus on personal growth, resilience, and the importance of maintaining perspective in the face of adversity. While they may approach the idea of a higher power from different angles, the underlying themes of acceptance, humility, and recognizing one’s place in a larger context are common ground. Find the higher power that works for you in order to solidify your sobriety.

Resources

Alcoholics Anonymous – Home Page

Narcotics Anonymous – Home Page